Wishes
August 18, 2008 at 10:27 pm | In Glad Tidings, Lundi, Nursing | No CommentsIt’s been a while since I’ve written. Lots has happened since I’ve been away. Work and Savannah’s death to name a few. I have had a lot to do and so little time to do it. It seems like whenever I had time off, I was off to somewhere else to do something. Sheesh.
Lundi went to camp at Camp Natarswi, a Girl Scout Camp at Baxter State Park. She had a wonderful experience! You see, what happened is that she went to LL Bean with the family one day. There was a kid’s adventure day there and there were contests to enter. One of the contests, she had to fill out a form and her name was drawn later. The prize was summer camp at one of 5 locations up to $500. Then in addition to that, she received a $200 gift certificate to LL Bean so she could get stocked up to go. She had a wonderful time! The camp was 3.5 hours away and when we went to pick her up and she saw us, she turned the other way and said, “Bye!” She didn’t want to come home, she had so much fun. Lundi got her wish to go to a summer camp.
The olympic story of Michael Phelps is amazing! I was inspired by a recent quote by him that I saw in a newspaper…it goes like this - “With so many people saying it couldn’t be done, all it takes is an imagination,” Michael Phelps. I felt that truth because a lot of people told me of the impossibility of becoming a nurse. He’s right. It takes imagination. Nursing has been absolutely wonderful! I’ve had a few of my own patients. There have been overwhelming moments, rewarding moments and learning moments. Emergency nursing is something I never thought possible right out of nursing school. I got my wish, though…and I think I fit right in. I had to work on Sunday. I looked over my training materials and found a few things to focus on for the day. One of the things was blood transfusions. So I told them…“please let me know if you have a patient who needs blood, because I need to get the experience.” I got my wish, but it was with my own patient. I gave a blood transfusion on my own real sick patient. He had many problems in the past that seemed to be culminating on this one episode. He was a busy patient.
Yesterday afternoon, I was listening to music, and one of the songs that came up was Savannah’s song. She had a song made for her. It’s so cute! I have it because I made a DVD of her life that included that song. You see, she died this month before her 8th birthday. I had the honor of making 2 DVD’s with about 1,000 pictures in a slideshow set to music. One of the DVD’s was of her 2 visits to Disney - one of which was on the tab of the Make A Wish Foundation. She wished to go to Disney and she got her wish. Then the cancer came back and she wanted to go back again. This time, the WHOLE family went - grandparents and all. These DVD’s were filled with her smiles and fun times. It was a tribute to her life. I had a hard time containing my emotions while putting it together. Savannah is such a gift. The wonderful stories of her life were amazing. Here’s one more - it happened after her funeral. I shared her story with so many of the nurses at the hospital. One of the nurses, my preceptor, recently lost her husband a year ago yesterday. I showed her the program from Savannah’s funeral and it had a poem with author unknown. She loved it so much that she photocopied it and published it yesterday in a local paper to memorialize his passing. Savannah has given in so many ways - intentional and intentional - known and unknown. I wish that I will never forget - and that I can witness many more of her gifts - even after she’s gone.
Amber, R.N.
June 27, 2008 at 9:40 am | In Extra! Extra!, Family, Glad Tidings | No Comments
My cousin’s wife just e-mailed me today. She announced that she passed the NCLEX-RN and she is now a registered nurse! CONGRATULATIONS Amber! That makes two in the family. If you were there at my graduation party, she was the pregnant one. Becoming a registered professional nurse is such a great moment. It accentuates the pinnacle of your educational achievements, which were very hard, emotional and expensive. All the family put their best effort into the whole thing. Again, Amber - GREAT JOB!
Photo Essay
June 26, 2008 at 12:17 am | In Family | No CommentsHere’s a little eye-candy…
- Lauren fixes her hair - looks like an oh no moment.
- Lundi and Lauren get smooshed.
- Caleb gets on a rock and poses
- Liam at the playground
- Liam and Papa at the beach
- Lauren, Lundi and Harrison battle the sun
- We were at the river with caleb
- Harrison's on Nana's tractor at the Graduation Party.
Graduation Party
June 14, 2008 at 10:57 pm | In Extra! Extra!, Family, Nursing School | No CommentsToday was my graduation party. My mother put it on at her house. I am honored that it was all for me. We all had fun. It wasn’t a surprise - mom had it planned for a while. It celebrates the ending of my initial nursing education. Here’s a list of guests:
Mom & Carl
Mataunt Dot & Uncle Phil
Nicole Marchand
Aunt Linda with her assistant
Mataunte Pat, Josh Pelletier
Jessica, Jeremy, Alexis
Mataunte Jackie & Uncle Morris
Uncle Bill
Sandra & Her Partner
Amber & Kyle Pelletier
Dave
Laurette
Diane Toussaint & Jason Swiesz with Jason’s kids, Jenifer, Alexis and Joseph
Steve & Shannon Bryant
My whole family
That makes like 36 people.
Thank you all for coming. Some brought gifts and cards. Thank you all for such an awesome and memorable day! I love you all! When we came home (late because we brought Laurette home, stopped to get Tylenol for Kim, then again for food, then again for gas), and while I was bathing all the kids, Kim asked, “Do you feel loved? There were a lot of people there today. You’re family is good…I don’t care what you say.” I agree. I did feel loved. Thank you.
It was such a good reason to get together. I got to see everyone. yeah!
On the way home - our muffler fell off. It’s just hanging there under the van. Ugh.
Kids - Cleaning Church building, Biking
June 13, 2008 at 8:43 pm | In Family, Natter | No CommentsHarrison learned to ride a two wheeler bike this summer. We bought him a bicycle and he didn’t quite know how to ride it. Practice brought him closer to learning how to control it. Now he knows. He can ride all on his own. He can mount the bike without assistance and he’s proud. He’s been asking me to ride with him and I’ve been delaying it repeatedly because school and NCLEX. I promised tuesday. My bike had to be fixed because Caleb broke it a while ago. We drove to bring it to Northern Lights and dropped it off. Then we went to Subway to have lunch together - Just Harrison and I. It was so much fun. They called and told me my bike was ready. By that time, however, the thunderstorms were rolling in. We decided to go to whistlestop anyways. After we got underway, the storm got worse. By the time we made it to Titcomb Mountain, the lightning struck Voter Hill. It was uncomfortably close, so we high-tailed it to the van and barely made it, leaving the bikes outside because the lightning was striking so close it seemed the thunder came before the flash. While puddle sized golf-ball shaped rain came splashing everywhere, we roasted in the van until I got up enough crazy gusto to brave the great outdoors and recover the bikes. We were out there for 1/2 hour then we left. Harrison thoroughly enjoyed himself and he called it an adventure.
I had a CT scan for my GU issues on Wednesday. It was uneventful, but I had the distinct pleasure of having 2 IV’s. We looked at a house to rent at New Sharon. It was on a river. I could fish every day, but we decided against it.
The others wanted to go biking the next day on Thursday. We took Abby. It was such a beautiful sight. Dog running and quite agreeable, kids laughing and tee-heeing. The long ride…it was very fun. Caleb, Lundi, Harrison and I spent an hour on Whistlestop. Very cool. That happened after we had a new couple and their kids over for lunch. He’s now working as border patrol. What a cool job! Last night, Kim went to Institute and came back…then we just spent the rest of the night together. Today, I went to Maine General Hospital to get my pre-employment physical, where they are worrying me because my back may be an issue. We’ll see next week.
After, I came back, made lunch and took Harrison and Lundi to the church. We cleaned the meetinghouse because it was our turn. We had to do it today because Saturday we’ll be at my mother’s house for my graduation party. Lundi and Harrison were both VERY helpful. They worked very hard. I took them for ice cream and then another bike-ride.
Now, there’s a week. It seems more like it. Life seems to be normalizing.
Kim getting sick
April 16, 2008 at 5:25 pm | In Extra! Extra!, Kim | No CommentsIs Kim getting appendicitis? Doctor says she may or may not be getting it. May be scar tissue stuff he says. Yesterday she had a low-grade fever of 99.7, positive rebound tenderness at McBirney’s point and positive Rovsing’s sign. Additionally, she has had increasing abdominal tenderness, especially on moving bowels or passing flatus. Today, she is worse. Her abdominal pain is constant and worsening, she is fatigued, dizzy and sometimes nauseous. Rebound tenderness and Rovsign’s sign persist. The blood work from yesterday came back with elevated WBC and negative XR studies. CT Scan is ordered for Friday. I think she should go back today. The pain is not excruciating, but still. She continues to work and push herself. Prayers are appreciated.
Upper
April 10, 2008 at 5:09 pm | In Credo, Family, Glad Tidings, Nursing School | No CommentsI was feeling down today. More on that later. I came home from clinical and all I had the energy of mind, body and spirit to do was sleep. I went to sleep. Before that, I told kim of my woes. An hour later the whole family came up here and sang me three songs, How Gentle God’s Commands, I Stand All Amazed and Be Still My Soul. Thank you family! You’re great! I love you and now I feel much better.
Seventy Toes Turns 2. Amazing.
March 25, 2008 at 8:00 pm | In Family, Liam | No Comments
Remember a year ago when Liam was born? See the page at Geocities. I used the banner above to anticipate Liam’s birth. It was so fun making this. He’s now two years old.


Family Council
March 23, 2008 at 11:09 pm | In Credo, Family, Nursing School | No CommentsWe held a family council tonight. It was about the fact that I have 7 weeks left in nursing school. I could pass or fail, depending on how much and hard I work at it. It will be up to me, but I can’t do it without the family’s support. There have been a lot of sibling rivalry and a bit of trouble with one of our kids. We wanted to drive home that their behavior affects all aspects of our family life. Their relationships and my school alike. If they do their part with chores and keeping the Spirit in our home, then it is more likely we will enjoy success. If they don’t do their part, it may pull me down with them. We don’t want to sink our ship. I’ve handed much of everything in the home to the rest of the seven people in my family. If they can’t keep up, I told them that I may have to stay closer to school (like at a friend’s house or hotel or something) so I can focus and pass. They all fell silent. They seemed to feel the importance of it all. It’s important because I need to support my family. I can’t do it if I don’t pass. More importantly, I need to start serving patients. I am no good to them if I can’t pass this semester. I got into this to provide for my family, yes, but I also got into it because NURSING IS MY PASSION (besides my family). They were agreeable. We discussed not fighting, doing chores, etc. But we also discussed ways we could be spiritually in-tune so we can function and raise our family up. These are things we DO instead of avoid. Prayer, daily scripture study (showing up for it on-time, too), achievement days, Family Home Evening, Sunday meetings at Church and personal prayer and scripture study. Go family! Go mike! I can do this! With my family and the Lord behind me, I know I can do it! I know they’re both behind me. I feel it.
Adventures Galore!
January 5, 2008 at 10:36 am | In Family, Glad Tidings, Natter | 2 CommentsAdventure #1: We went out for dinner. It was wonderful! We went to The Granary Pub and Restaurant. It is a Farmington restaurant mainstay. You can always count on the Granary to serve a good plate. That makes it predictable. Tasty, but predictable. That’s good, but it Farmington where there are few worthy restaurants, predicable equates with a big sigh. “The Granary again?” That means I really have to be in the mood for the Granary. Last night, I was in the mood for the Granary, but when I actually got there, I remembered how predictable they are. Even their specials menu wasn’t a surprise. I was a bit shocked at the, ahem, decor…valentines…appropriate, but I would rather not have seen the ribbons. One visit and you’ll know. So it took three times the server checking on us to see if I finally decided. By then, I was tired of flip-flopping between tastes I already knew and the rather un-adventerous. So I settled on Shrimp and Scallop Alfredo. Desperate to dig up any hope of new and exciting, I checked their pasta selecction. Rigatoni. Hmmmm. So in mid-order, I said, “I’ll take the Shrimp and Scallop Alfredo. But wait, can you tell the cook to do something unexpected to it. Add something to it. Surprise me.” I got the curiously silly and wacky smirk that shouted, “I don’t have a button for that, sir.” Then after a long pause, she giggled and asked, “OK. What do you mean? What do you have in mind? Um. I just think they’ll ask me what you mean.” I just said, surprise me and assured her to just do it and I’ll go with it. I could tell she was unaccustomed to such a challenge. So in comes the plate. It sported the predictable edible flower - a sort-of Granary signature. Under the flower was filled with unexpected. The sauce was slightly reddened, there were filled pastas and green streaks. I thought at first that the red food in the sauce was bacon, but later found it wasn’t. Kim jumped the gun and asked the server, “Is that portabella filled ravioli?” She responded, “Well, they didn’t even tell me what it was. They told me that you can tell them after the dinner is done to see if you get it right.” And so we ate. Kim got a french dip sandwich. She didn’t like it so we shared my plate. It was wonderful! What a fun dinner this was! It turned out that we were right. Portabella filled ravioli, spinach and sun-dried tomatoes. Just look at their menu on the website listed above. You’ll see that the meal is definately not this adventurous. It was a pleasant and fun discussion point for dinner at a restaurant that would be otherwise predictable. It would have really helped our neighbors at the restaurant. They ordered dinner and didn’t talk at all except to discuss the wine. They were virtually silent through every bite and stare. They avoided each other’s eyes. This sort of fun food adventure evening would have really sparked a hot night for them! What a memory it was for us! They only charged us $1 more for the plate. What a deal! Try ordering something off-menu. Watch them squirm and find an adventure worth digging up. Want an adventure every time you eat in Farmington - without even asking? Go to the Homestead.
Adventure #2: We went to see National Treasure: Book of Secrets. As with any sequel, this movie followed the original in speed, tactics and actors. Nicolas Cage was predictable and Justin Bartha has those girl-thrill eyes and innocence lost personality. Predictable…but we loved it! Thank you Disney for giving us a PG-rated evening of fun adventure movie! There was a mixed bag flavor of patriotism, far-fetched and “c-mon” that made acctually ended up grounding the movie. But just like a good train, it had to start out slow and gradually speed up until it eventually was un-stoppable. It kept us guessing and wanting more! Another winner!
Adventure #3: We got home and found the kids had an adventure of their own. Our usual babysitter is awesome. Last babysitting adventure yielded toast under the chair and pancakes smooshed on top of the chair - with a dash or two of disaster in the kitchen, livingroom and wait - the whole house. This time, the bird got a shower and was completely drenched. I don’t know exactly what happened, but the adventure had Lauren and Harrrison written all over it.
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